Sunday, October 18, 2009

My Younger Brother - Cinque

34 comments:

the good nurse said...

Nothing like a man with dimples...and do I detect a slight gap between his teeth? Hmmm....

Constructive Feedback said...

Look man. Forget the family photos.

Put some smokin women on your blog!!!

NEA said...

He's a very handsome man! Sorry if this is an ignorant question, but does he have a relaxer in his hair?

KonWomyn said...

Lol! Funny CF, but this a smokin' man!
DV, I s'pose non-conformity runs in the gene pool - no?

Undercover Black Man said...

How does he react when he gets hit on by dudes?

the good nurse said...

UB,
How do u react when dudes hit on U?

Kimberly said...

the good nurse said...

UB,
How do u react when dudes hit on U?

ROFLMAOO!!!!!!!

Undercover Black Man said...

I'm not good-looking and stylish enough for dudes to hit on.

the good nurse said...

Most dudes who hit on other dudes are so much interested in good looks and style. I am sure you have what they are in search of. No harm no foul...just wondering why u felt compelled to ask the question.

the good nurse said...

*not so much interested...

Undercover Black Man said...

... just wondering why u felt compelled to ask the question.

TGN, I just bet it's an issue that this dude has to deal with from time to time. Denmark will correct me if I'm wrong.

What I'm really interested in is a generational difference when it comes to how to react. I know a cat in his mid-20s, it happens to him from time to time. And whereas cats of DV's generation (and... ahem... temperament) might be tempted to respond by knocking out a few teeth... younger dudes are products of changing times. It ain't no thing.

Undercover Black Man said...

^ And apart from all that... I got time to kill at the airport. Sitting here duckin' and dodgin' them H1N1s...

the good nurse said...

UB,
understood. So, are you saying men who like men do not approach you? I agree that there may be generational differences regarding how brothers handle homosexual advances, but u made the statement based on DV's brother's appearance not his age. Are you inferring that he has a "look" that attracts advances from other men? Just interested in your take on that...

the good nurse said...

Wash your hands frequently....best defense against the spread of infection. Ugh, sitting in the airport is not fun...however it can lend to some entertaining people watching....LOL.

Undercover Black Man said...

Are you inferring that he has a "look" that attracts advances from other men? Just interested in your take on that...

I guess I'm dealing from stereotypes, TGN... but I was thinking GQ. Good looks, trim physique, fashion sense... what gay guy wouldn't try to flirt?

I'm willing to bet "Cinque" and "Denmark" have had a conversation along these lines.

the good nurse said...

Wow. Ok. Now that we have established the criteria for attracting gay men....if u say so. My "gaydar" is pretty accurate so with that being said I'd bet that Cinque walks confindently in his masculinity...so much so that a homosexual would know not to even go there....but, as with most humans, I could be mistaken.
What say u, DV?

Michael Fisher said...

Hmmm. I dunno. Looks like a Jehri Curl to me. Very Cali.

Michael Fisher said...

Mills...

"I guess I'm dealing from stereotypes, TGN... but I was thinking GQ. Good looks, trim physique, fashion sense... what gay guy wouldn't try to flirt?"

Hardly ever happened to me. Only got hit on by women. Well. Mostly.

Michael Fisher said...

Then again, maybe it's got something to do with the fact that I'm 4'11 351 pounds, can't grow a mustache for the life of me, and have a real bad acne problem. I bought some teeth though. So that issue is resolved. Not to forget the deodorant. I also laid off Old Spice and got something more modern. I think it's called Brut.

Undercover Black Man said...

I'd bet that Cinque walks confindently in his masculinity...so much so that a homosexual would know not to even go there....

I ain't saying it happens to him daily, TGN... but if dude is close to 30 years old, I'd bet it has happened more than twice... that a gay guy has come on to him.

Now I really wanna know... just to put my instincts to the test.

The Doc aka Will-I-Am Friedrich Nietzche said...

Yeah, I see where UBM is coming from. Cinque looks a dude who keeps clean, neat hair, sense of style. He's probably had plenty of gay dudes getting the wrong idea.

Ha, the ladies are 'bout to bite your head off just cuz' they wanna sop the brutha up with a biscuit, UBM, but I see where you're coming from.

Denmark Vesey said...

Sissssssta Nurse!!

Sweetest black woman on the planet.

You know your men. You nailed lil bra to a "T".

I actually hit Lil Bra on the phone and read UB's contention and Sista Nurse's response to him. He said:

"Wha? Shiiii. Tell that cat to keep his homo...erotic projections to himself. You said his name is Undercover Black man? Yeah. Aight. Gay men don't fuck with me like that. I'm a grown ass man. I don't know about his friend. I'm 40 years old. I don't believe gay men are searching for men ... just because they look a certain way. They are in search of men who are corrupted in a certain way. You know what I mean? But aint no man just walking up and "hitting on me". What kind of shit is that? I mean I'm cool with anybody. I aint like you DV. You be throwing bricks at muhfuggas (laughs). But nah they can tell I walk with God. And I walk with a bad sista too! (laughs) So nah. No problems with that one bra. I like TGN. She hit it on the head. Tell her I said thank you."

Undercover Black Man said...

I stand corrected.

dx said...

i was/am a bit confused with UMB's assertions about DV's brother...i would've never thought that...

i've been in the company of good lookin' bruther's my entire adult life and cant recall ever havin' issues with gay men hittn' on a brother...

includin' myself....


once OR twice MAYBE!!!


if you LOOK like a duck, QUACK like a duck, and ACT like a duck then you must be a duck

brothers who got their shit tight aint DUCKS!!!

their brothers!!!

that line of inquiry is very suspicious

but hey UMB might have had some different experiences

KonWomyn said...

DV
Your bro is 40??? He looks 35 and I can't imagine you'd be a day over 40 - nah, no way!

On the Homeo's:

Nuff respect Sista Nurse you're mos' def on point abt Cinque; some Black men just aren't to be stepped to, they're a man's man. Regardless of generation.

But on the flipside there are some gay men who know no boundaries and will hit on any guy regardless. In my experience its happened once to my BF and a couple of my friends - not because they're not manly in their selves, but because some White gay dudes think all fine Black brothers are fair game. A Black gay guy would never, ever chance on a Brother because they know beta.

With both Black and White women its different; dunno why women can't sense some women just don't walk that way. Maybe because there's no fear of a beatdown but me and my friends have been hit on. It's not just women our age and drunk chics in the club, but older, very sober European feminist professors 'lusting after the African native,' as we say. Its freaking unnerving to say the least!!! And you just have to smile, back away very quickly and dodge 'em till the conference ends.

Undercover Black Man said...

dx: I can dream, can't I?

dx said...

@UMB


"dx: I can dream, can't I?"


........i guess...........

the good nurse said...

DV,
Tell your bro he is most welcome....one thing I have learned in my 43yrs on the planet is how to read my beautiful black men....like a long, satisfying love story....
@ The Doc,
no one is wanting to bite anybodies head off. Just want to bring clarity to a muddled view. To be honest, I get the feeling that there may be a bit of hate going on towards the brother...I could be wrong.
and I would sop him up, minus the biscuit.

Undercover Black Man said...

... I get the feeling that there may be a bit of hate going on towards the brother...

No hate towards him, TGN. (Although I might've been having a spot of fun by pushing DV's anti-gay buttons.)

Pink said...

DV, he's cute. Is he single?

KonWomyn said...

Hey Pink
If y'read his response upthread, I think he might be taken:
"they can tell I walk with God. And I walk with a bad sista too!"

pink said...

well that might be a reference to mama DV! LOL j/k I think you're right...

Smile said...

Perhaps the question to UBM could be rephrased to, how do they react to him when... jk.

Anonymous said...

*dying laughing at your fine lil' brothas reply to UCM*