Tuesday, May 17, 2011

O. Mahogany  said...
My boo-booski and I were talking about fine black women in hollywood. And he told me he and one of his friends, a black luxury vehicle mechanic shop owner, were having a similar conversation.

When my boo named all these black women he liked, the last one being Meghan Good, his friend replied, "yeahhhh, but she's a little hood sexy though"

Meghan Good? Hood Sexy??!.. 

Boo told me that he found out later dude's girl is a Beckster. I find that the further up (affluent ladder) I go in California the more the likelihood of finding interracial relationships. I also find that some of these guys are so NOT cool no smooth ass black chick would want to go there anyway.

So he and Beckinski get married, have a light skinned daughter and she overcompensates later by getting with the coolest black brother on the scene (like DV. ;) jus fuckin witchya) It's the natural order of things really lol.

27 comments:

that dude said...

Truth.

Matthew 21:42 said...

Mr. Vesey. You have remarkable taste.

Lightskinned Wonder said...

True dat!

Jigaboo Jones said...

See Dee Vee! Dats uh NUVA Lights Skinnded woman! She only about 12/15th Bwack!! You Hate Yo Sef DeeVee!!

moulinrogue said...

Another One Drop Wonder!
An octoon stunner!
Got less Black
Than Halle Berry's momma!

Anonymous said...

I don't get it? This woman is less black than who? She seems pretty brown to me. Halle Berry's mom is white. Silly.

RBGAnonymous...yes that's me said...

yeah, interesting, but i guess we all have our preferences...

i just saw a picture of kanye sucking the face off another mop water white girl. another Black Male Fail. im not comparing the two at all, just made me weary. and i saw a music video last night and a rapper had this white girl on his arm. the only white woman in the whole video. this is mass genocide going on. black women are being weeded out. smh.

and completely unrelated:

last night i turned on the tv and they were running 2 arnold films on scyfy channel and now this morning there's all this talk of arnold's infidelity. and tbs will be running conan. seems so, scripted doesn't it? granted i didnt know about his separation til today, cuz i been under a rock and rarely watch tv, but the love child thing just came out today right? i believe that nothing on tv is on by accident, so it makes me wonder why we are being geared to pay attention to another non-issue?

thoughts?

h8ongirl said...

^ Dat u, Jill Scott?

My new friend is handsome, African-American, intelligent and seemingly wealthy. He is an athlete, loves his momma, and is happily married to a White woman. I admit when I saw his wedding ring, I privately hoped. But something in me just knew he didn't marry a sister. Although my guess hit the mark, when my friend told me his wife was indeed Caucasian, I felt my spirit...wince. I didn't immediately understand it. My face read happy for you. My body showed no reaction to my inner pinch, but the sting was there, quiet like a mosquito under a summer dress. - 3-time Grammy Award-winning artist, writer, actress, philanthropist and mother

Denmark Vesey said...

"yeah, interesting, but i guess we all have our preferences..." RBGAnonymous

Where do you see "preference"?


"i just saw a picture of kanye sucking the face off another mop water white girl. another Black Male Fail." RBGAnonymous

How is that a fail?

Not sure I get that.

If I saw Rihanna kissing a white boy I wouldn't consider it anymore of a 'black girl fail' than if I saw Rihanna drinking a Pepsi.

Isn't that whole ... "Interracial Alarmist Tabboo" a bit cliched?

I mean really ...

If a brother has a choice between a white girl ... and a let's say ... a sister who was 45 pounds overweight ...

would choosing the white girl be an example of "Black male fail"?

I don't know ...

My experience is that men ... like the women ... who like them.

Some sisters don't check for a brother until ... he get's a white girl.

Then they've got their lips poked out.

Denmark Vesey said...

h8ongirl said...

"Although my guess hit the mark, when my friend told me his wife was indeed Caucasian, I felt my spirit...wince."

Hello sister.

Welcome to the spot.

I can tell I like your style already.

Your spirit 'winced' huh?

Wow. That's pretty dramatic.

I'm trying to relate.

I just can't imagine ... seeing a sister ... with a white boy .. and actually 'wincing'.

I don't perceive any sense of ...'betrayal'.

I don't feel ... 'rejected'.

I just feel like I'm looking at a woman sitting in coach ... while I'm sitting in First Class.

But I'm open.

Maybe a sister can explain it to me.

Isn't that whole ... "Sistas playing the role of the rejected Black Woman .. second fiddle to the white girl routine... a bit cliched now?"

Hell.

It's not like the brothas currently with white girls would be chasing sisters down if white girls didn't exist.

...

...

They'd be with Asians.

Lightskinned Wonder said...

Jigaboo, DV don't hate himself. He just love light-skinned folks like himself.

Anonymous said...

well I hope he keeps loving them because this is one fine motherfucker!!!

the good nurse said...

i am not offended or sad when a brother chooses white. it is obvious to me that if he is attracted to such a woman, i am not his type. and that is ok.

i am not attracted to every man i encounter so it is safe to believe that every man who encounters tgn will not be attracted...and that is ok.

i do not require their "thumbs up" to validate my fabulousness. facts do not require debate.

Amarie said...

DV said: I just can't imagine ... seeing a sister ... with a white boy .. and actually 'wincing'.

I don't perceive any sense of ...'betrayal'.

I don't feel ... 'rejected'.

I just feel like I'm looking at a woman sitting in coach ... while I'm sitting in First Class.

But you do feel something that seems odd right? And why a sista gotta sit in coach?lol, Can't she sit in First Class with her white man. Please explain.

Denmark Vesey said...

"i do not require their "thumbs up" to validate my fabulousness. facts do not require debate." TGN

Now.

You KNOWWWWW ... I love that don't you?

Perfect.

Denmark Vesey said...

"But you do feel something that seems odd right? And why a sista gotta sit in coach?lol, Can't she sit in First Class with her white man. Please explain." Amarie

Hey Amarie. (Always loved that name. If I have another daughter ...)

Do I feel something 'odd' about an occasional black woman .. with the occasional white man?

... um

um ...

... um

no.


Nothing odd at all.

Not in 2011.

Quite normal actually.

Surprised I don't see more of it.

In a nation of 300 million people there is going to be relationship overlap amongst groups of people we call 'races'.

"And why a sista gotta sit in coach?lol, Can't she sit in First Class with her white man. Please explain." Amarie

...

lol

Of course. Sister and her white man can sit anywhere they please.

It's a metaphor.

She's sitting where she can find a seat.

She's not "rejecting" First Class.

No need for my 'soul to wince'.

She's just dancing with the cat who brought her.

Good for her.

Amarie said...

Okay, I got it DV, thanks:)

that dude said...

First of all, all the whiner who bitch about people not being dark skinned enough need to think about how they would feel if all those people said they were white.

"YOU AIN'T WHITE!!!! DON'T DENY YOUR RACE...."

So you shouldn't deny it either.

As for the coach metaphor, my black wife put it in similar terms. She has no problems with white people or interracial marriages, but when she sees a siter with a white boy, she thinks they lacked the game it takes to get the jamming brother they really wanted.

Cash Rulz said...

This is really still an issue? You get in where you fit in or who fits in with you.

JAZZY said...

BLACK, WHITE, GREEN, ORANGE....THE WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL. NUFF SAID.

Seven Half Store said...

^ and vice versa.

My boo-booski and I were talking about fine black women in hollywood. And he told me he and one of his friends, a black luxury vehicle mechanic shop owner, were having a similar conversation. When my boo named all these black women he liked, the last one being Meghan Good, his friend replied, "yeahhhh, but she's a little hood sexy though"

Meghan Good? Hood Sexy??! Boo told me that he found out later dude's girl is a Beckster. I find that the further up (affluent ladder) I go in California the more the likelihood of finding interracial relationships. I also find that some of these guys are so NOT cool no smooth ass black chick would want to go there anyway. So he and Beckinski get married, have a light skinned daughter and she overcompensates later by getting with the coolest black brother on the scene (like DV. ;) jus fuckin witchya) It's the natural order of things really lol.

Seven Half Store said...

she sees a siter with a white boy, she thinks they lacked the game it takes to get the jamming brother they really wanted....

^ what my vice versa was for

Anonymous said...

Those earrings in Megan's ears are a tad bit "hoodish" to be honest.

JH said...

She bad as hell....reminds me of a funny rap line, though..."your bitch aint really got no ass...she only poked it out!" (Guru, I think).

IWonderAsIWander said...

Meaghan Good would get beat.

Pink said...

I kinda like when I see ppl with those throw back earrings on. I don't think they're hood. As for interracial dating, who cares. People should date/marry whoever they connect with. I'm actually more embarrassed by comments like Jill Scott's regarding her "wincing spirit" because they speak to her own insecurities more than anything else. If you feel rejected it's because of something within that is telling you that you don't measure up. She needs to exorcise that demon rather than criticizing people's relationships.

uglyblackjohn said...

In my experience, fine Black women don't care but women with other problems seem to care too much about race.
Meaghan, Halle, Iman, ... - all could pretty much pick and choose.
Mo'Nique, Nene, ... have to fixate on race as their excuse.

*I just had a meeting with my liquor reps before a club opened.
Both were nice looking and white.
As car loads of single Black women waiting outside noticed that I walked two white girls to their cars and gave them hugs, screams were heard.
Yeah, I got the side eye from each woman as she entered the club.
But their real problem wasn't that I thanked my white liquor reps for hooking me up.
Their problem was that they lacked game so badly that they had to arrive at a club before it opened without a partner.