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The females are unconsciously responding to the lack of male dominance....,good observation Cnu. DV, I wish more black woman would read this blog. I do. Most of the males and women commenting on this issue are telling the truth. Black women need to get the clue. I said it before and I will say it now, they bought into the lie, success equals equality? Men were meant to design to lead it's in their DNA. Not saying women cannot do it, but let's face it, it is not a competition for who is the stongest, black women think it is and now they are reaping. Let me add, some black woman. It is very important to understand the roles of male and female in the way God ordain it to be. Very important.
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1. REAL MEN don't give a fugg about a woman's material success.
2. REAL MEN care about a woman's immaterial femininity and vitality.
3. Successful woman who are single know this truism, but still choose to believe a man is intimidated by her success and therefore making sure that the problem remain external.
4. This turns into a vicious man-hating cycle that only exacerbates the problem until man-hater settles for woman-hater or another man-hater.
I agree with DV and Thordaddy on these points.
Or...they could not be attractive. I hate conversations about this subject that don't take into account beauty. It's dishonest. Call it unfair or whatever, but looks count more for men than women, and they count a lot for men.
[quote]: "Why Are 42% Of 'Succesful' Black Women Single"?[/quote]
Because Polygamy is illegal?
When a woman uses her looks to fornicate and not family, she grows old, single and with neither. Liberal Orthodoxy has radical autonomy as its most dire consequence. Some can embrace it better than others. Some are sent towards self-annihilation. There will be many a woman to which isolation and a singular existence becomes like hell.
Those women are unmarried and childless because they have defined success as career instead of defining success as marriage + family. It's pretty simple.
They are the ones who think that a man should like them because of their careers when they don't realize that real men could care less if you play checkers for a living so long as you put your family as your first priority.
II,
Much agreed. Many of these women fail to realize that Liberal Orthodoxy defined their early success and now that same liberalism is entirely useless and hollow outside of furthering one's successful career.
When a woman uses her looks to fornicate and not family, she grows old, single and with neither. Liberal Orthodoxy has radical autonomy as its most dire consequence. Some can embrace it better than others. Some are sent towards self-annihilation. There will be many a woman to which isolation and a singular existence becomes like hell. Besides all that a fine woman won't give me a second look anyhow.
Mr. Steve Harvey.... Men DO have biological clocks too.
Hold on now...ain't nothin' wrong with getting your freak on, men or woman. Finding love it hard for everyone.
The females are unconsciously responding to the lack of male dominance....,
Dominance is a biological concept of an asymmetric ‘power’ relationship between (any pair of) individuals, as a result of previous encounters with others biasing likelihood of contesting. That this requires dedicated neural structure shows that dominance is adaptive; and it is usually thought that fitness is increased through dominance (hierarchy) minimising mutually unproductive contest over resources, and/or determining access to or control over resources. But highly inconsistent data indicates that this operational definition is too wide, and given clear evidence that dominance is invariably same-sex, it would seem instead to function primarily to allocate reproduction.
Dominance contest exposes individual differences in metabolic vigor especially, but also in various other, including sophisticated attributes; and by a self-organising process there is ranking of same-sex individuals in a hierarchy. But this achieves nothing in itself without an integral mechanism of corresponding individual variable self-suppression of the physiology re reproduction – and mate choice with rank as the criteria. Reproductive suppression would appear to vary along a continuum, from in some species (most ‘cooperative breeders’) a 100% reproductive skew with total suppression of all individuals bar the sole breeder to, in most others, a gradient down the length of the dominance hierarchy. The mechanism in most species is directly either hormonal or pheromonal, on top of an indirect consequence of the stress caused by relatively low rank.
Dominance would seem to have evolved as a major instrument of the proposed ‘genetic filter’ function of the male, whereby in effect accumulated deleterious genetic material is ‘quarantined’ in the male half of the lineage from where it is purged, so as to keep this source of reproductive logjam away from females, thereby to avoid amplifying the problem of the female being necessarily the limiting factor in reproduction.
The theory makes predictions mutually exclusive of the consensus model, that dominance/DH is:
• same-sex only;
• present whenever, within one or both sexes, there is potential conflict over reproduction, and there is no mechanism to preclude this, but otherwise is absent;
• always associated with some degree of differential physiological reproductive suppression.
This new conceptualization of dominance has major implications for the social as well as biological sciences, in that resource-competition models of the basis of sociality will have to give way to a thoroughgoing biological understanding that places centre-stage not resources but reproduction; with consequent radical revision of notions of ‘power’.
At 2:10 when they said they approach this serious matter with a comedian, it should explain how serious ABC took this issue.
This story smells like Luchina Fisher, a plantation writer at ABCNews.com that I will be discussing in intimate detail at beginning of the year.
First of all, with the exception of the female who works for the Prison Complex System in the legal court system, I don't think these chicks ain't rocking $100K+ with the stuff they do.
These females are regular and I don't understand why they even have demands or think there are no brothas good enough to get with them. Most of the chicks on the video can't even contribute 50% to the McMansion lifestyle with the jobs they working....
The females are unconsciously responding to the lack of male dominance....,
good observation Cnu. DV, I wish more black woman would read this blog. I do. Most of the males and women commenting on this issue are telling the truth. Black women need to get the clue. I said it before and I will say it now, they bought into the lie, success equals equality? Men were meant to design to lead it's in their DNA. Not saying women cannot do it, but let's face it, it is not a competition for who is the stongest, black women think it is and now they are reaping.Let me add, some black woman. It is very important to understand the roles of male and female in the way God ordain it to be. Very important.
The comments are rationalizations of the observed phenomenon - after the fact.
According to the ethological model I cited, (and there are lots of far more intensive animal variants on this same behavior) Black women are rejecting mates as unsuitable because of a powerful biological motive.
The icing on the cake would be data showing common gender preference stressors resulting in a higher female (rather than male) infant birth rate.
Black women are stuck between a biological rock and a cultural hard place.
Rejecting males no longer deemed viable in terms of their rank in the male status hierarchy, and, not yet swarming in droves to the males who are deemed more viable because of their perceived dominance.
When the present social order begins to collapse with greater momentum, this trend may shift in some presently highly unpredictable directions.
Copy/paste king,
Wouldn't you say these liberal women are ready to SUBMIT to the Islam thing?
Look at the copy/paste king...
Dazzle ya with words,
but don't say uh thing.
When the present order collapses the RESULTS will be as predictable as the simple flow of molasses. Out with nondiscrimination and tolerance and in with discrimination and intolerance. These liberal masses READY TO SUBMIT. They say it with their beliefs and now all they need is the DOMINANT creed. Got single black women lonely as hell ready to bow to a dominant male. So these effeminate snails let bradleys in by the plane load cuz they want to get a little of that dominant tail. Homos like to be submitted too and make no mistake many are ready to let ole muhammad through.
This is predictable. And because our copy/paste king is so very complicit, he claims the results of our collapse to be not real explicit. Looks like this dude ready to submit and I declare fatneck's pontifications wholly illicit.
This is a tired meme recycled for attention.
She wants a guy thats 6"6, well built and a successful professional. Question is does a guy that meets these characteristics want you? Are you good enough for him?
I am almost certain that each and every one of these ladies has met someone who showed interest and was ready to commit to a relationship. Maybe he was earning >$100,000, but had his head screw on right and had potential to come good. Several of these ladies are willing to confirm on air that they are fine being on of several girls on guys that fit the "profile".
Having seen pix of Michelle and Barack in the village/market in Kenya - I have great respect for her. Obama before becoming a Senator earned ~$120,000 a year and was still paying student loans. I am certain these ladies would have never looked his way if he stepped up to them.
"Having seen pix of Michelle and Barack in the village/market in Kenya - I have great respect for her. Obama before becoming a Senator earned ~$120,000 a year and was still paying student loans. I am certain these ladies would have never looked his way if he stepped up to them".
I heard it was much less after he left law school. Now every woman in America wants a Barrack Obama. Michelle you go girl.
Heads up lady, the writing is there and that woman who wants a man so many feet taller than her, she is imature a man should never waste his time on such foolishness.
A meme isn't tired if its beneficiaries think it true and IT ACTUALLY IS. A growing legion of high-income, no children women are coming to age. Given the obvious void in their lives, they seek out rationalizations. The main memetic rationalization is that men are intimidated by their "success." This intimidation can be real BECAUSE THAT WAS ITS INTENT. But mostly, the "success" is a repellant to real men across the board BECAUSE THAT WAS ITS INTENT.
Keep posting stuff like this i really like it
a la Jill Scott:
Mmmm,
Don't, don't, don't, don't,
Don't, (don't,don't) don't, don't, don't,
(don't don't)
It's bad,It's bad
Sometimes s**t is bad... (don't)
Look,
Don't feel no pity for me
Cause I'm going through a couple things,
Life means change,
That's the way it goes, goes
All my life I had a constant burning
A strong deep, desire
An aching ambiguous, yearning, yearning, yearning
For something better
For something bigger
For something wider
For something higher
And lots of regrets
Cause I ain't seem to found it yet
I've been searching around the world
Never knowing what to expect
I get sad sometimes
Yes I be mad sometimes
Cause I'm out here on the grind
Making mine
And I still can't seem to find
What I've been looking for
Opened so many doors
For real, yo
I just wanna be loved...
[Chorus:]
I just wanna be loved
Like everybody else does
I just wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved
I just wanna be loved
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