Saturday, December 15, 2007

15 comments:

Intellectual Insurgent said...

Ugh...

How many more ways can someone slice and dice humanity into tiny bite-sized pieces?

Instead of describing a woman by her spirit and inner beauty, someone supposedly important is referred to as my "ex-almost-best friend, size 6 shoe-wearing, Sagittarian, born on Tuesday, Atlanta-born, Los Angeleno lawyer, Spanish-speaking, Paris-loving, half-Jewish, half-Christian who defines herself as Christian before Jewish but Black first, but not with "Caucasian" features, who likes milkshakes, puppies and walks in the park."

Michael Fisher said...

Yeah, like ya "creole" boyfriend wit da "creole" dick.

Who the fcuk is the one color-struck here?

Intellectual Insurgent said...

Fisher -

If you're going to refer to my ex, please do so in correct Fisher speak -

he's my "Creole, 6'1", Scorpio, ex-football player, Louisiana-born, Los Angeleno, college educated, with a size 12 shoe, pre-marriage relationship, auction manager-turned-recruiter, who likes jet skis, guns and smart chicks."

Unfortunately, I can't remember his astrological sign, but I trust that shouldn't be a major impediment to the description.

You're the one talking about his dick. Not me.

A little homoeroticism, eh? LOL!!!

Anonymous said...

Curious as to the point of this post. Seems like bait to me. Is this common on this site?

Michael Fisher said...

Notice you still didn't refer to him as black.

Intellectual Insurgent said...

Black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black, black,

Black

Black

Black

Feel better now Fisher?

Denmark Vesey said...

Insurgent - That is funny as hell.

I didn't quite understand Mike's point regarding you and this past boyfriend.

Does he take exception to the "Creole" reference?

Is he suggesting you have a problem describing a man with whom you've had a past relationship as "black"?

Or is he suggesting the man who described himself as "Creole" is in violation of some Race Rule?

I think Fisher is the product of an era that assumed blackness was some kind of handicap, some type of stigma.

Yeah, many of them say "Black is beautiful" ... but they don't believe it. They don't act like it.

I'm trying to teach these cats, that in a world starved for soul, spirit and free expression - blackness is an asset.

They resent that suggestion because it robs them of the 'Victim Status' that they've been taught to covet.

This insistence to characterize oneself as a victim is the steel bars of one's mental prison.

Anonymous said...

That was funny and I didnt get Mike's issue either.

Mike, you contend that Dina describing the guy as creole shows what?

Anonymous said...

But what I'm surprised that no one jumped on was the following from the post down below.

DV suggested that Mike wasnt handsome enough to "pull" Ayo, and that, as a result, Mike was trying to down play her beauty.

In response, Mike offered that he "looked egyptian" as some sort of indication that that automatically made him attractive.

That is the most compelling evidence of some sort of physical hangup -- straight from the horse's mouth -- not the nonsense GSWS stuff.


Mike, what was up with that comment?

Michael Fisher said...
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Michael Fisher said...

"Mike, what was up with that comment?"

Simple. The point was that I look somewhat like Ayo's husband and that clearly someone who looked like her husband "pulled" her.

Further I had earlier made the reference to my ex-almost Sudanese Arab fiance who I stated looked somewhat like Ayo, but, in my opinion, a bit prettier. Plus she is a ballet dancer, which means she is slim - slimmer than Ayo by the way (Though not when I first met her). Which meant that I already had "pulled" a woman like Ayo.

The point? Since these are the facts, I'm clearly not operating from the premise which DV presumed. namely a feeling of inadequacy which would cause me to "dismiss" Ayo.

DV is trying to get out of the pile of shyt he stepped in by classifying Ayo as the most beautiful women on the planet.

He revealed that in fact he is color-struck like a mofo.

He's obsessed with light skinned women just like so many other brain washed Negroes. And, from my observation, that appears to be particularly the case with dark skinned brain-washed black males. Which dark-skinned DV claims to be.

I could be wrong, but I've found that, with a few exceptions, light skinned black males aren't as hung up on either light-skinned or white women as black males like DV.

Although, at the end of the day, my ex-wife with whom I had a child was light-skinned as well. Which, if you look at it in terms of when the rubber meets the road, may indicate that I too, as other black folk, suffer from the mental illness. Though I don't think so 'cause my first wife who I wanted to have kids with was not light-skinned at all.

Anonymous said...

LOL!

Now I'm going to have to hide my obsession over Bebel Gilberto!

achali said...

Michael: You don't think you "suffer from the mental illness." But how do you or any of us really know if we do or not?

Michael Fisher said...

achali...

"But how do you or any of us really know if we do or not?"

That's a very good question.

I think the best way to determine that is to rigorously question everything about oneself by using logic and not to try to lie to oneself.

The last part, "lying to oneself" is particularly difficult, in my experience.

Michael Fisher said...

of course I meant "not lying to oneself"