Monday, November 08, 2010

"I Want You To Know ... I Prepared For You All Of My Single Life" - The Groom

"the key is in the preparation...what are we doing while we wait? " Sista Nurse

11 comments:

Intellectual Insurgent said...

Makes me want to get married again.

Intellectual Insurgent said...

...to my husband of course. LOL!! :-)

HotmfWax said...

Married????

No way the Sistas going look forward to marriage as long as they got Tyler Cherry:) and the j-hollywood telling them that the black man is crap meme.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/11/07/AR2010110704428.html

Pink said...

Thanks for the link, Hot Wax. I love the book because I really feel her poetry but I was hesitant to see the movie because I didn't think it would be responsibly done. I'm hearing such mixed reviews about it. Have you seen it?

chosen said...

sigh. sadly i report that i have seen the film and, well ... sigh.

i just can't stand anything that presents blackness as a problem.
"being a colored girl is a metaphysical dilemma that i haven't gotten good at yet" (thandie newton's character)

... WTF?! as many people that i've known who have struggled, i've NEVER heard anyone say some old slave shit like that.

besides the fact that perry is a piss poor film producer/writer/director, the entire premise of this and other films is that black women's identity is wholly defined by oppression, sexual exploitation, abuse and misery.

@pink, if you decide to see it for yourself i believe you'll find that your instincts are correct.

HotmfWax said...

Pink, you could not pay me to see such crap...Think about it.


"For Colored Girls" is pure marketing genius to subliminally program your(black females) minds and also work a certain "anti-black male" viewpoint into your subconscious and leave you believing the false thoughts about how "sorry your black males" are.

Be careful in what you identify with.


"In For Colored Girls, the black men are largely egregious (rapists, down-low HIV infectors, crazy murderers and so on). While this project is mainly about the liberation of black women and the conversations that they need to have with one another, the men in the film are also a part of that conversation.

Perry's version chose not to write the men in the film as fully human. Instead, they are cardboard props. Even Hill Harper, who plays the token "good guy," is one-dimensional. The result, sadly, is that at the end of such an emotionally wrenching movie, there is no reconciliation whatsoever between the sexes or with the audience.

We now live in a time when black people have been given relative power and wealth to green-light film projects. Yet many of our movies portray black culture as mere pathology. And we seem to be okay with it. Surely, if white directors had us in their films in this unflattering way, the NAACP would be up in arms. Double standard? I'd say yes."-end quote

Same Oscar praise as "Precious".

And just like "precious" predictive programing of "negative themes" black people in regards to incest, lesbianism, HIV, obesity and weak parental mentoring it will be celebrated as "Oscar worthy".

Just like Halle Berry's Monster's Ball was celebrated as "oscar worthy" for poverty, the death penalty and "doggie...." well you know what I mean.

that dude said...

It's funny how it was so okay to attack black men who did their extra macho hip hop music videos, but when you point out the Tyler Perry/Oprah Winfey axis of attack on black masculinity, you catch side eye and worse.

Black gay men and bitter single middle aged black women (and the white men who empower them) are now setting the agenda for black culture.

They make product for broken people. I respect the need for that...the blues is a long tradition in our culture...but I'm not broken and have no use for that shit.

I only resent them in that they are taking up all the oxygen in the room.

Anonymous said...

Chosen, how much of the problem with the film is because it's channelling the original play or mostly bec Tyler Perry is just being Tyler Perry?

HotmfWax said...

"They make product for broken people. I respect the need for that...the blues is a long tradition in our culture...but I'm not broken and have no use for that shit." -that dude

On point!

Nothing healthy about tyler cherry or Oaf -fa, both sold black folks down the river for their soul. Why do black women support them so??? Because they are marketed to them as their own personal savior. cherry and Oaf-fa, your own personal Liberators! From what and from whom is what the sisters should ask. A blind squirrel could have easily found that "nutty " agenda by the boys to co- opt black females using these 2 demons.

Sasha said...

Chosen said: "I just can't stand anything that presents blackness as a problem."

Love this.

Anonymous said...

DV,
Is that your friend who we met at our gathering at your house back in the day? He got married?! Cool beans. He was a football player right?

RJEsq