Thursday, November 04, 2010

Be A Man. Get A Chick. Marry Her. Make A Baby... Everything Else Is Talk

O. Mahogany said...
How do you men feel when you go to weddings? What's the ceremony like for you? Since tuning into your site DV I often test men with your "lay it on the line" approach. 

I've come to think the mention of marriage has been so suppressed that when I say it now men get an instant erection. Forgive me for being forward but there is no better way to describe it.

 Denmark Vesey said...

What's Happening O!

LOL. Wow.

Funny you ask that. The family and I just returned from New York where we attended what must have been the most profound and spiritually significant wedding in American history.

I mean ... it was deeeep.

I damn near jumped up in the middle of the ceremony speaking in tongues. I was ready to marry my wife all over again.

It was beautiful.

But ... uh ... regarding your point on men, marriage and erections.

I think you are on to something.

It has been my contention all along that despite the rhetoric about 'finding the "right" woman' ... and all the bullshit fears men express about marriage ... despite the endless chase for the next piece of punany ... brothers know what is of value and respect women who not only TALK about being wives ... but ACT like future wives.

Which means ... pussy is for daddies.

Hold off.
the good nurse said... 
wow, this is so on point.... i consider myself to be sexually free and far from a prude....so equating sex to love is sometimes not the case with me. but, i love marriage, commitment and all that being a wife/helpmeet entails. all men are looking for their "good thing" and all women are waiting to be "found"...the key is in the preparation...what are we doing while we wait? i have been married and find no other union more sensual.

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Seven Half Store said...

How do you men feel when you go to weddings?

What's the ceremony like for you?

Since tuning into your site DV I often test men with your "lay it on the line" approach.

I've come to think the mention of marriage has been so suppressed that when I say it now men get an instant erection.

Forgive me for being forward but there is no better way to describe it.

Denmark Vesey said...

What's Happening O!

LOL. Wow.

Funny you ask that. The family and I just returned from New York where we attended what must have been the most profound and spiritually significant wedding in American history.

I mean ... it was deeeep.

I damn near jumped up in the middle of the ceremony speaking in tongues. I was ready to marry my wife all over again.

It was beautiful.

But ... uh ... regarding your point on men, marriage and erections.

I think you are on to something.

It has been my contention all along that despite the rhetoric about 'finding the "right" woman' ... and all the bullshit fears men express about marriage ... despite the endless chase for the next piece of punany ... brothers know what is of value and respect women who not only TALK about being wives ... but ACT like future wives.

Which means ... pussy is for daddies.

Hold off.

the good nurse said...

wow, this is so on point....
i consider myself to be sexually free and far from a prude....so equating sex to love is sometimes not the case with me.
but, i love marriage, commitment and all that being a wife/helpmeet entails.

all men are looking for their "good thing" and all women are waiting to be "found"...the key is in the preparation...what are we doing while we wait?

i have been married and find no other union more sensual...

Joanna said...

Speaking of making a baby... do you know anything about dong quai or chaste berry?? I heard they are supposed to boost fertility. I think I may have to forget about the marrying part and go straight to the baby making...

Joanna said...

Oh, and then I got D-3 and valerian root also! I dont know what the D-3 is supposed to do, only that I was advised to get some, and the valerian root is supposed to help with anxiety! I want to try natural remedies instead of pharmaceuticals

Seven Half Store said...

"the key is in the preparation...what are we doing while we wait?" - the nurse

Yeah, what are we doing? Let's compare notes. your past my present ;) lol

Ummm DV. Come on now. I'm all for making a man wait but we can't say that there aren't tons of marriages that evolved from people in love who had a healthy sex life.

Don't we mean pussy is ideally for daddies? Of course that's what we mean, I dont even know why I asked that. lol

the good nurse said...

O.Ma,

i believe DV is saying that sex should be reserved for the man whom u love and are building a future with...not just random dicks that happen to swing ur way (no implication @ all sis)...

because women are emotional and connect with men sexually typically after we develop love towards them, it is advised to be sure that they feel the same way....

truth be told, they really don't require love..they need respect.
we, however; need to know we are loved more than anything..of course that is mho....

happy monday all!