"Love" has become an obsession in the Secular world. In almost all modern pop music, Desperate Housewives TV shows, and American Pie movies, the theme is appetite packaged as love. From beer commercials to hamburger ads, marketers exploit the female form to incite lust.With this lust created in the male psyche, advertisers hyper-sexualize the image of women to sell nearly every product targeting men. The media is used to divorce sex with women from the person of women (pornography), creating a generation of men who like pussy, but don't like girls.
Trying to live up to this distorted ideal, women become victims of the diet and fashion industry, who rake in billions from women obsessed with "body consciousness" and "looking young". Many women become De Facto Ho's by dressing and behaving in a manner they believe men want.
Relationships formed between men and women built upon the foundations of sexual attraction and "I love you" infatuation (she's hot), have the life expectancy of bananas. I think our ancestors were on to something when they arranged marriages. I'm thinking about bringing the concept back.
Know of any exceptionally bright and handsome young brothers about 9 or 10 years old? Send me a link. I want to start tracking cats for my baby now.
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Why you want a brotha for her? So you can raise your grandkids yaself?
Careful what you wish for..
Oh, and don't forget that average, decent guys find it hard to get a woman because-- Well, ok, I guess I have to clarify here and say black men because I don't know if the same thing happens in other cultures-- a lot of black women have this "thug" mentality, they want thuggish guys, so if you're just a regular guy working a nine to five, not trying to act like some fake gangsta they're not half interested.
I've had women actually tell me I wasn't thuggish enough, or heard them say about other guys they weren't thuggish enough. All the thugs i've met have been damn fools, boys pretending to be men who haven't even learned to love themselves yet, so it's hopeless to ask them to try to love a woman.
But don't get me started on that ish. I could write for days.
Oh, and don't take this the wrong way, I do have a girl and she's great, but when I was out there bad, all single and lonely, stuff like that just drove me crazy. It didn't (and still doesn't) make any sense. Well, ok it does because i've learned to read the psychological ramifications of it now, but it's still pretty sad.
Doc, I think that may be true if you're dating girls that are between 12 and maybe 20. I don't know any grown woman who wants to work all day to come home to a "thug". I work and I expect any man to do the same.
WHERE THE HELL DID THAT PIC COME FROM! I dont even like that picture!
Damn Pink! You cute!
I knew it though.
Really, Pink?
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Thug-Strebor-Streetz/dp/1593091486/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1241718586&sr=8-1
http://www.amazon.com/Jessica-Sinclaires-Thug-Love-n/dp/B001GXK6HW/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1241718586&sr=8-4
http://www.amazon.com/Every-Thug-Needs-Wahida-Clark/dp/0758212887/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1241718586&sr=8-5
http://www.amazon.com/Thug-Lovin-Wahida-Clark/dp/0446178098/ref=sr_1_8?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1241718586&sr=8-8
And it's grown women snapping up these books. I see them. I work with them. But I feel you, though. Plus, it's just good to hear a black woman say that.
N i'ma go with DV. U cute, ma. Not try'na start nuh'n, ha, just givin' props where they're due.
Gha.. dammit, sumbody teach me how to hyperlink. When I try it on here it never works right.
05 07 09
Hey, I have been thinking of the arranged marriage concept myself. My son is a smart cookie and as cute as a button and I want someone like that for him. But I must admit that I am somewhat nervous about the concept because some of my Fijian Indian girlfriends back in the day had arranged marriages and they er weren't all that cool...
Ha.
I hear you M.
But let's keep this thing in context.
A whole lot of ... unarrainged marriages ... aint cool either.
Think about the ridiculous paradigm we have bought into.
We drop young beautiful fertile 17 year old girls off at college dormitories. Encourage them to become serial daters (sequential sex partners) until they graduate. Then we expect them to enter the job market around 22 and to continue the serial dating (sequential sex partners) ritual into their mid twenties.
Around 30, toward the end of her reproductive prime, is when contemporary young women are taught they should start "thinking" about a husband.
At 35, a young woman married and with child, can consider herself fortunate.
Summin' aint right.
I'm encouraging my daughter to get married around 19 or 20. At the height of her reproductive prime.
Thanks guys.
Doc, I call those books nigga novels. They can be amusing and I've read a couple myself but I really hope that no one is actually basing their lives on it. It's kind of like watching Maury. Clearly those are real people but can anyone honestly say they know any of them?
Unfortunately, Doc is right. During the highschool years, these girls are taught that only the thuggish, pant sagging, overly tatted up young brothers are worth their time and attention...all the while, young men who display a heightend level of intelligence, manners, swagger, maturity and sophistication get looked upon as the undesirable...so when all of them get to around the age of 25-30 the chicks are scrambling to get their eggs fertilized by the same brothers who could buy them a pop back in the day..the intelligent brothers remember the rejection and only look for women who share their vision while the chicken heads are left with the overgrown thug love....I, by the way, have raised a son who is fresh to death...no chicken heads need apply.
the good nurse
I meant "who could NOT buy them a pop back in the day"
TGN
The ladies want the thugs because we live in an anti-traditional society. Even woman like Pink are into "traditional" men insofar as they don't obstruct their own personal freedom, i.e., their liberalism. This arrangement ultimately fails too because in a world dominated by liberal women, what is a "traditional" man to do other than join her in her liberalism. And a "relationship" based on each individual's freedom and independence is no relationship at all.
Welfare enables rampant breeding with who the fuck ever. Who needs a daddy when you got Uncle Sam? Feds changed the game up in favor of thugs ever since they passed all those handouts legislation.
Then liberals like Murphy Brown also made it socially ok.
Thordaddy, just out of curiosity how do you know what kind of man I want???
Men and women have been having "issues" since time began.
Arranged marriage ain't going to solve it.
However, I do think a focus on the roles God defined for men and women is key.
Not only should women study their roles, but men have to own up to their roles.
Too often I see men quote that submissive scripture to women, yet fail to acknowledge that the Bible also tells them to submit, but takes things a step further and tell them to love their wives as Christ loved the church.
Now, from my experience, that's placing an incredible onus on men. If Christian men consider the love manifested in their lives by Jesus, they will see that typically they fall short in showing that same love to their wives.
It's not just about filling traditional roles, it's about going beyond that and truly being Christ's representative in your marriage. That means being filled with forgiveness, being just, being gentle, being strong, just a lot of stuff.
I think that when men embrace their role, they will have a better ability to convince women to embrace their roles. It won't be easy, but that's what I think is the true solution.
Good stuff Big Man
Believe it or not, Steve Harvey's new book embdies the exacts ame sentiments Big Man just expressed. Am reading the book now and have been pleasantly surprised.
Believe it or not, Steve Harvey's new book embdies the exacts ame sentiments Big Man just expressed. Am reading the book now and have been pleasantly surprised.
lil' man,
Although I agree with the gist of what you have to say about men exemplifying their traditional Christian roles, it just isn't good enough. One must also dismantle one's liberal-minded woman who sees "roles" as antithetical to their very being. In fact, the more a man attempts to define his role, the more his liberal-minded woman will take advantage of those traditions that benefit her and make obsolete those traditions that benefit the man.
This is an inevitable process almost certainly shared by the majority of men in this country. The response to this uneven playing field is for men to simple drop tradition all together and play equally liberal. Two liberals in a relationship is certainly a paradox unless one or both is ready to subsume their liberalism to a higher order. And if it is just one filling the traditional role while the other plays liberal then contention and disagreement is the name of the game.
Pink,
I don't know what kind of man YOU want, but I would speculate that you want a man that respects your freedom, i.e., your liberalism, while showering you with all the benefits of a traditionally masculine mindset.
Now the question becomes, "What is the role of the liberal?" in the relationship? It's one that almost certainly can't be answered unless one makes their freedom secondary to the commitment of a relationship.
DV, how you gonna have this thread goin and not holla at your boy?
(Big Wayne cracks knuckles)
" I got a college degree I got a good job,
And I even tuck in my shirt!
Why the fuck don't chicks respond
Whenever I try to flirt?
What's he got that I don't have?
Nothing that I can see.
Those fucking braids and all those tats,
He doesn't even have a college degree!
What the fuck is wrong with me,
How come I can't get a date?
Well it's another saturday night alone
I guess I'll just masturbate "
Bet that sounds familiar You Know Who
You know who the fuck I'm talkin to.
Just sit on back and take good notes,
While I learn you a lesson or two.
I hear you all talkin blah blah blah,
but ain't none of you clowns got it right,
So allow Big Wayne to step right in
And shed a little light.
You got shit twisted if you think that most women want a gangsta
Nah, They just don't want a fuckin herb, or a mark or a wanksta.
What they really want a dude who's shrewd
And perhaps even a little rude,
With swag fallin out the bag
And a "dont give a FUCK attitude"
One day he can wear a fly ass suit,
Next day he can change a flat tire
The Next day He can bring it to the gutter,
Like Weebay from The Wire.
You convince yourself we walks like this becuase we think we fly,
But the real reason we walk this way is cause our dicks is strapped to our thigh
Now if you read that sentence and all you thought was, "His grammar wasn't right"
Then I'm sure we all know what you'll be doing, this coming Saturday night.
" Oh Pink you're so cute. Oh Pink you're hot" You really think that bullshit's workin?
I'm laughin my balls off cause now I understand
Why you spend so much time jerkin'
If you think i'm lyin or I ain't got game,
Ask Pink if my shit's on point.
But all yall herbs gon have to wait,
'Cause we bout to smoke this joint.
Yeah its true I got mad game,
And I can teach you virgins a lesson,
But this lesson is not a lesson You can learn in just one session
These are pearls I'm droppin from me to you
Fresh off the top shelf
For Lesson #2, meet me at my LAX workshop
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I call "Game's Recognition of Itself"
Word life, really? I know he ain't...
*cracks knucks* Damn, DV, I been dyin' to get in on this rhymin ish. Say goodbye to ya dawg. He's food now.
Feelin my mind heating up, bout to blaze fake thugs to ash,
I'm searching ya words for jewels of knowledge,
but all I seem to find is trash,
Thank God class is over now,
let them poor kids have they summer.
U the only dude I know runs a school
that all it's pupils leave it dumber.
Cuz naw, playa, my brain ain't cells and synapse quote me it's a tooly.
While u the same clown I caught uptown, jivin actin Moolie.
Last name ani, think it's funny
Perjorative slang that I brang
taken from the ancestors of Giuliani
Peep how I borrow the Sicilian and serve children,
Ladelin out bowls of my soul to poke holes at the unworthy.
You must never get the worm me i'm up earlier than Early.
Squidbilly ass lame tell me, what hat you wearin today?
Fool, jig, clown, jester, whatever it is you better pray.
Pray for reign. Just wait for mines.
I'll get you tame. And take my time.
I met ya type before, naw god I ain't impressed.
Nukes and trilats are on my mind,
Fool azz nukkas never get me stressed
You the same type'a clown that
when I throw multisyllabic scripts at ya dome piece,
Eyes glaze over like donuts
You curl up in the fetal like holmes niece.
Truth hurts bout y'all thugs, don't it
Just a manchild in the promised land,
So get the game from a real man,
i'ma speak slow so you understand.
The real reason women want thugs
Is cuz they self esteem is fucked
Don't believe they deserve much better
So they just choose some lame that sucks
as such
as much
as you do,
Too true.
Try to be a peaceful dude most times,
But now the claws is out like Cthulhu.
"Duhh...Ch-thoo-who?" This you.
Pfa, stop asking. If u gotta do that you'll never know.
Just enjoy this lyrical thrashing.
Sit back and enjoy the show.
It's on the house. You know the one.
Used to be yours but now it's mines.
I bleed real on every page,
U just another dude that rhyme.
You want peace well prepare for war,
I'm boy scout ready, so wot u gwin do?
Sun Tzu can be fun too
Plus I know what i'm fighting for.
I know it's easy to gas dudes up now,
Bush's out so you know that's cheaper,
But fight the urge, you foolish herb
Don't get pumped up and waken the sleeper.
So i'ma leave you with this parting note, I see you wobbling and i'ma have mercy,
So drink this knowledge in my dude, so next time you won't get thirsty.
These words probably sting so bad u gonna swear that I bust a gat.
I don't need you to serve me for calling Pink cute,
My boo already taxed me for that.
*drops mic*
get his ass Doc!!!
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