Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Would You Encourage Your Daughter To Do The Beauty Pagent Thing?



I never understood sistas like this.

10 comments:

? said...

She is very beautiful though.

Intellectual Insurgent said...

Hell to the naw.

Anonymous said...

confused with deep-rooted identity issues.

Denmark Vesey said...

Whachu mean Kalena?

All-Mi-T [Thought Crime] Rawdawgbuffalo said...

no
but if she wanted to i would support her
especially a full tuition 4yr billy was attached
how old are your kids?

Anonymous said...

It definitely wouldnt be for me, but more power to the girls who choose to pursue this.

Pageants are big in the south.

Anonymous said...

I would never allow my daughter to be in a paegant. Why would I want her to put on a front and have the a bunch of people judge her? I'd have a hard enough time with her modeling, as shallow as models are.

Anonymous said...

I would never choose the pageant life for my daughter, and I would hope she'd avoid the whole scene.

Although the sponsors and coordinators of many pageants try to pretend that intelligence is a factor, the average person recognizes that pageants judge beauty. Such judgment (e.g. via losing) seems detrimental to a young woman's confidence.

BUT, like Torrance, I would support my daughter's decision to participate and use the experience (whether she wins or loses) as an opportunity to teach the youngin a few things about "life."

PS: I missed ya, Denmark! I've been reading a few times a week but haven't had time to really participate in the comments.

Anonymous said...

"Such judgment (e.g. via losing) seems detrimental to a young woman's confidence"

Well, nothing ventured, nothing gained...

What if they win??? Winners receive a boost to their confidence. And even losers get to figure out what they need to improve on. There is no failure - only feedback.

Liberal idealists and pure academics pretend that beauty is not a factor, and intelligence is the only one. Out in the real world though, especially in interpersonal relations, that is not the case at all..

If you are going to stress brains, nothing wrong with stressing beauty too.

Nubinikki said...

Never. Ever. It's a fairytale world that focuses on an outdated standard of beauty and it completely obectifies women. Many of these pageants try to seem well-rounded by soliciting stupid answers to stupid questions (see http://www.pageantlink.com/tips.html), but its all a just ruse. What do the winners get? Money, cars, and 52 weeks of fame, free trips, and a false sense of confidence based on looks not character. What do the losers get? A bottomless pit of insecurity that you're not good enough based on looks not character.