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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Can A Brother Ever Really Connect With A Woman If She's Not A Sista?

Swedish wife ... Jewish mistress ... Bra. Just get a sista.

42 comments:

  1. That's a loaded question.

    It does, after all, hearken back to the logic that drove segregation. Blacks and whites are different, despite what the humanitarians try to assert. Right? I mean, is that right?

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  2. Great question.

    But not necessarily so.

    Who says brother sista necessarily has anything to do with black white?

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  3. I don't know Denmark. You wrote the headline.

    Hey, I love your website. I'm glad I found it. I listened to the Mugabe speech you linked off YouTube. What do you think of Mugabe?

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  4. What's up Jonathan. Welcome to the spot. Glad we didn't scare you away. Some characters up in here.

    Yeah, I wrote the headline. But I didn't invent the concept. I'm interested in you perspective.

    However I suspect the brother sista phenomenon transcends mere race.

    Is Bryant Gumbel more of a brother than Che Guevara?

    Is Condoleeza Rice more a sista than Josh Stone?

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  5. Sista Nurse!

    "define "sista".

    ...

    OK.

    sis•ta: blk Amer (vernacular)
    -noun
    The Good Nurse

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  6. Without definitions (or shifting definitions), you can get away with alot of stuff...as you have. You've often used "...you missed my meaning...you don't understand".

    So are you suggesting Elin is not a "sista", Tiger is not a "brotha", both or neither?

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  7. I'd like to hear what Thordaddy has to say on this subject seeing as he rails against integration and sees it as a form of "radical autonomy." According to his definition (which I'm still struggling to overstand) integration is one of the root causes of society's aversion to marriage and for those married; the cause of it's breakdown.

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  8. Well seeing as Tiger told his friend Elin "she went ghetto on me" and "I'm going to have to get a Kobe special" i.e a house for his alleged indiscretions, I'd say Tiger's a "brotha" and Elin a "White sista".

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  9. KonWomyn,

    So your definition of "brotha" and "sista" has something to do with marital indiscrection and the ghetto? So stereotypes are OK over here, but watermelon and white women is over the top...

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  10. DMG,

    No it has to do with choice of language - he could have spoken in standard American English, but chose to use of euphemisms often used by 'brothas' and 'sistas' i.e. not brothers and sisters in the political or humanistic sense.

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  11. DV...
    tru dat. But I must say that the definition is not void of my Blackness...me being born and raised "African American" has a lot to do with my sista swagga.
    Can someone other than a Black woman have sista like qualities? yes....not sure if that qualifies them as a sista....just as all women born black are not necessarily qualified to be a sista....
    not looking for an argument or a verbal lashing from my blog fam. Just voicing my opinion.....
    love.
    tgn

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  12. Can someone other than a Black woman have sista like qualities?

    TGN: Someone who got unanimous props from my black readers, and damn-near "sista" status, when I blogged about her recently was... Congresswoman Debbie Wasserman Schultz.

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  13. Thanks for the welcome, Denmark.

    My perspective is that love is love and love has no boundaries. Adults who make their own way in life and pay taxes should have the right to marry whomever they want.

    I suppose that the question of who is a brother and who is a sister is in the eyes of the beholder.

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  14. P.S. I'm also kind of amazed that this is such a story. I think it should be left alone. Tiger and his wife had a fight. So what? I don't want to hear anymore about it from the media.

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  15. Truth be told, I love myself some sistas. Like DV's ex-girlfriend. He was nice enough to introduce us. She's my heartthrob.

    Thank you, DV.

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  16. Konwomyn

    Clearly, we live in a time where many believe "love" conquers all. The reality though is that liberal orthodoxy is conquering all. I have little doubt that Tiger's wife is/was thoroughly indoctrinated in liberal orthodoxy. I have little doubt she believed that race, religion and ethnicity has/had no bearing on the success of a life-long commitment. Whether Tiger perceived this weakness from the get-go and used it to his advantage as many non-white males do in their relationships with ignorant white Westerners is really unknown.

    The irony of course is that white liberals like Elin throw off any kind of loyalty to their race, religion or country, but turn around and expect marital loyalty from someone with very much the same liberal mentality.

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  17. ^And what race would you be loyal to, Farst?

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  18. Mikey,
    U right on Q
    Anduh answa' ya query
    What race ain't u loyal to???
    Tha black man WHO ain't black magne

    But justa black fool...

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  19. ^Farst, that's a cop-out. Answer the question, please: And what race would you be loyal to, Farst?

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  20. Mikey,

    I strive to be loyal to the Truth, first and foremost. Therefore, those that insist on denying the reality of race, loyalty or race loyalty are to be taken to task. The task is for you to first articulate how you would comprehend an answer to a question about things which you don't believe exist?

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  21. Mikey,

    If an illiberal way of life and its necessary distinct racial root is threatened then race loyalty becomes important in the question of continuity. But because your materialism denies the existence of race and your radical autonomy disavows the impediment of loyalty, racial loyalty must become something either nonexistent or evil.

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  22. Mike,

    Your boy there probably has nightmares of black men penetrating white women. I have no idea how you even acknowledge his existence on this blog. Some people truly ARE beneath contempt. Some are just mentally ill, and deserve our pity.

    Some people don't understand that there is only one race...and it is human.

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  23. DMG,

    That's what radical homosexuals say and then proceed to do nothing for our actual continuation. We're so "human" that pregnant mothers carry parasitic globs of cells according to the latest medical consensus. Contemptible is right!

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  24. DMG...
    First US Marine
    With buzzcut vageen
    Think race loyalty
    Sum kinda diabolical scheme!!!
    But it's just uh necessary endeavor
    Cuz nigels like DMG
    Thinka 'bout wipin' white man out fo'eva...
    Comin' with sum "humanism"
    Thinkin' he real clever???
    But mo' like Cleaver
    Only rabid and rabied, 
    Carryin' uh clever!!!
    Tryda pull that lever
    Capital punishment fo' tha white polemicists!!!
    Say thangs that rattle DM-Gee
    Have'm cryin' 'bout white supremacy
    But dood so crazy confused
    Think he drank uh bottle Hennessey...
    Can't u c???
    Just like Mikey...
    White supremacy exists,
    But only collectively,
    Not individually...
    Originally, it originated
    Across uh population...
    Only trickled down
    As mass hallucination!!!
    This tha theory
    Of black alienation...
    This DMG...
    Diabolical MD...

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  25. DMG...

    "Your boy there probably has nightmares of black men penetrating white women."

    I don't know, DMG. Looks to me that, like our bloghost, he is unusually focused on black men penetrating white men.

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  26. silly... so what Tiger is cheating on his wife and the wife mad, do you blame her? Who cares if she is black or white or whatever... this happens everyday what else is new DV

    Stayinginformed

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  27. What you all must understand is Thordady's very existence is predicated on "race loyalty". As for ppl with dominant genetics, we don't carry that burden. Im not mad at Thor in the least.. he's doing what he 'posed ta. I wouldn't want to see Black ppl wiped off the face of the earth. Nor does he want to see white ppl wiped away. The mixing of races is a surefire way for white ppl to cease to exist. If I was "white I'd probably feel the same way.This white supremacy thing is just an illusion to Thor. It's there to pacify you.

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  28. Elin Woods: The Blackest Woman On The Planet. Kicks her husbands ass then uses a golf club to rescue him from the car.

    If you are going to marry a white woman, make it an extremely hot perfect 10. If she's hot, I have no problem. Tiger could have done better.

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  29. Would Tiger Woods have ever married a Black woman who was a nanny?

    Considering what Juanita Jordan got, how much would Elin get in a divorce settlement if there is no prenup? $300 million? $500 million?

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  30. "Would Tiger Woods have ever married a Black woman who was a nanny?" MB

    Yes.

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  31. "The mixing of races is a surefire way for white ppl to cease to exist."

    They're going to cease to exist anyway- whether it's through "the mixing of races" or being made extinct by the sun.

    Their destructive nature is no longer needed on the planet. We're moving into an era of peace.

    The "white" jig is up!

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  32. "Their destructive nature is no longer needed on the planet. We're moving into an era of peace."

    Now this person is a Marxist! Classic New Left Marxist!

    And to think... you were told that Marxism eschewed the concept of race and nation... the concepts of suprematism as reactionary! Not so fast.

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  33. Jonathan,

    The new left marxist label merely functions as a euphemism for anti-white genocidal ideology.

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  34. "the concepts of suprematism as reactionary!"

    Reactionary to what?

    Facts are facts.

    Genocide is deliberate killing. Mixing of races doesn't fall under the category of genocide.

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  35. DV...
    Whazzup with these fleez
    Flee'n tha scene
    Uv yur diabolical
    N-Kwur-EE...
    Recognizin' Eldrick Woods
    Mo' race unconscious
    Than tha most liberal white fool
    Recognizin' Tiger
    Be uh diabolical tool
    His KIDS are lighter
    He takin' dark outta tha pool
    Thus, by any notion of loyalty
    He b actin' uh fool
    But these nigels up here
    Thinkin' itz cool...

    OK!!! 

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  36. ...and being made extinct by the sun....genocide? Hmmm.....the sun a deliberate killer? OK.

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  38. Anon,

    Do you know how ridiculous it is for a liberal to attempt to limit the expanse of the meaning of genocide? It's down right illiberal.

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  39. Anonymous said...
    Nov 30, 2009 6:13:00 PM

    "Reactionary to what? Facts are facts. Genocide is deliberate killing. Mixing of races doesn't fall under the category of genocide."

    I think you might be clueless, Anonymous. "Reactionary" is a Marxist buzzword - meaning, any idea that dissents from Marxist ideology is "Reactionary." I can't figure out where you are coming from with the "facts is facts" jazz.

    Such as racial or cultural suprematism; or so we thought. Apparently not. The "New Marxism" of today is decidely in favor of Islam and more embracing of racial and religious suprematism - as long as it isn't white, Western, and Christian.

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  40. Thordaddy, I can see that you understand Marxism very well. Make sure you share that knowledge with everyone you come in contact with.

    Because you know what the "New Left Marxism" is, I can see that you are on the tip of the spear.

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